Why I don’t Believe in New Year Resolutions!

New Year resolutions are like diets, they both don’t work. I don’t believe in neither. I remember when I was a true believer of resolutions and wrote them down at the beginning of each year. Then at the end of the year, I would check the ones that I had accomplished. There weren’t that many checked off! It became a ritual for me each that I could not allow to pass.

 As the years passed and I matured in my thinking, I realized that they really didn’t work. They created added stress that didn’t produce the results that I desired. They were like a diet. You start very anxious and try really hard at the beginning but as the days, weeks and months pass it becomes too hard to follow and is eventually given up. That’s the way we start our resolutions. Having said this I have to tell what I believe. But before I say this, I have to state that I don’t believe in fatalism. I don’t believe everything is ruled by chance. I do believe that Providence works behind the scenes in ways that I am not aware. I believe in having goals, both immediate goals and future goals. They require some degree of planning but they are not set in stone. They are based on what I think I need to develop in my life or that I think I want to accomplish. Some involve other people like my family. Most of them are realistic but I am aware that there are factors that might affect the outcome. I don’t write them down and I don’t beat myself up for not accomplishing them.

 I also believe that some goals should not have a time frame, they should be part of my life forever and have to be developed with discipline. I put healthy living and exercise in this category . For many years now I have worked slowly in developing good eating habits and doing some weight lifting. This year I want to add a cardio component to my exercise routine. I am not a maniac but I have consistency. And this is key in anything you plan. Don’t try to do everything in giant leaps, take “baby steps” but be consistent. I learned this from a movie called “What About Bob?” Watch it!

Whatever you plan to do this year, think about it carefully, develop a simple plan, take baby steps, be consistent. At the end of the year if you did it, great! If you didn’t, think of something that’s simpler and try it. Don’t give up what’s important for you. Keep at it. Remember the fable of the Tortoise and the Hare? I think you do!

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The Issue with the Rick Warren is the Question

It seems that the issue with Rick Warren praying during the inauguration of Barak Obama is not making too many people happy. On the one hand are the gay activists who feel betrayed by Obama. They can’t stand the fact that the current president-elect chose a pastor who opposed gay marriage to give the invocation. To them, it is anathema. Everyone who does not conform to their view is homophobic and intolerant. Holding this view is on par with denying them basic civil rights. So, to have someone representing such view is reprehensible. Let’s give them credit, they are trying to be consistent. Barak Obama is not worried about being consistent in his view. In my opinion, he is looking for political expediency.
On the other hand are the Christians who oppose Rick Warren involvement in the inauguration. To them, it is also anathema that he would take part in a ceremony of a man who is pro-abortion. In their view, it is inconsistent with Christianity. Praying during the ceremony is equated with conforming, supporting and agreeing to some degree with Barak Obama’s view. To say it strongly, Rick Warren is a hypocrite.
But here is the question. Does praying at the inaugural ceremony equal to supporting Barak Obama in some form? I think this is the question that must be answered. I think it is hard to answer unless you are Rick Warren. Let’s play hypothetical. If his intent is to take part because he believes this is what every one ought to do for those in power ([this is what the Apostle Paul instructed Christians to pray, “… for everyone—for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives” (1 Timothy 2:1b-3a)-by the way Nero was in power around this time.] then I think he is right. If his intent is to, in some way, support Barak Obama in any of the views contrary to Scripture and Christianity, then he is wrong to do it. My guess is that it is the former. Furthermore, I think the prayer is ceremonial in nature and says very little about what association Warren and Obama have with each other. We will have to wait and see what happens after.

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Helping the Needy, the Poor and the Hungry


For many years I have been supporting three children from World Vision. One girl from Mexico, one boy from Africa and one girl from Albania. For about $30 bucks they are able to provide help for poor communities that don’t have their basic necessities, such as food, water, health aid, and education. One can also give a monetary gift that can go directly to the sponsored child. They assess their needs and they give the money. In return, you get a letter, pictures of what was bought and the satisfaction of helping someone in need. This has brought great joy to me and my family. I know my money is is being used for someone who really needs it. I also give to other local organizations such as Fred Jordan Mission who feeds hungry people in LA, The Long Beach Rescue Mission and the Orange County Food Bank. I have to other organizations as well: Samaritan’s Purse, The Salvation and the Red Cross.

Why do I this? I do it because I count myself blessed and cannot fathom the fact that there are so many people close and far who don’t have their basic necessities. We in this country, no matter what financial status we are, are rich. We have so much. Why not give a little this Christmas season and fulfill its true meaning: Giving and blessing others as the God has given us everything in his Son.

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Thanksgiving


My favorite time of the year is Thanksgiving. Christmas is also one of my favorite but its meaning is over shadowed by the commercial and cultural aspects of it.  Not so with Thanksgiving.  There’s no giving of gifts.  Don’t have to worry about giving and receiving.  It’s just a time to enjoy with our families and be grateful for all God has given us. Thanks-giving. It’s clear. You can’t interpret in many ways.  Of course, it has a historical meaning that some revisionists see differently.  But whatever the case, it is still Thanks-giving.  Thanks-giving teaches not to be selfish.  When we are thankful we are saying we are content with what we have been given.  It isn’t a time to complaint. Just thankful! Thankful it is Thanksgiving. Just before Black Friday. So appropriate. What are you thankful for?

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Where’s the right Church?

Recently I have been on a church hunt and I have to admit it has been hard finding the “right” one for me and my family. Before I say anything else, let me give a little background on where I come from. I have been a Christian for over 20 years and have served in quite a few Hispanic churches doing quite a bit of teaching and preaching. I also went to Bible College and Seminary where I obtained my BS and MDiv. I served as a church “planter” among Hispanics for about 5 years. I left this job because I thought I could no longer do the job without giving it my all and because I thought my future was uncertain. I was a hard job but I thought it was my calling. Now I just attend church. I have been in at least three churches but I don’t seem to find the “right” place. I don’t seek perfection. I now there isn’t such thing. But nevertheless, it is important for me to find the church that I think fits the profile of what it ought to be. Here’s what I look for in a church: 1. Good theology. Good theology is based on the Book (i.e. the Bible). 2. Thinking Pastor. I’m not looking for the best speaker. I’m looking for a pastor that doesn’t just follow other preachers teaching but thinks on his own and is not afraid to step out with this convictions. 3. Friendly, accepting people. It saddens me to see that I have attended churches for many years and in some I hardly know anyone. People don’t want to know each other. You have to fit their profile. If you are a “non-believer” then you are more likely to be accepted but if you are someone like me, it’s harder. They rather not deal with you. 4. Relevant teaching. Teaching based on the Bible but also relevant and challenging. I don’t want to be entertained nor do I want pop psychology. 5. A challenging youth group. This is specific to my son’s needs. We have become so disillusioned with what youth groups are today. They do little or no teaching. They try to entertain the youth with games and activities. But there’s no challenge to them. No wonder we can’t see the difference between Christians and non-Christian young people. 6. Looking out, not just looking in. The church needs to not just care about their own little world. Many seem to me, are just trying to build their own little kingdom. It needs to look out to those outside of the four walls and beyond.

This are some of things I’m looking in a church. It’s been hard. The next few weeks we will be visiting some. I’ll try to give more observations. I have much more to say about the church and what I see it’s her future here in America. It’s not very positive but it’s not void of truth. But this merits another blog later.

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About Teachers

“To teach, one must be passionate, motivated, and inspired-full of life. However, many teachers die soon after entering the system, showing up routinely everyday as part of the walking, breathing, living dead, with no hope, inspiration or motivation….Maybe our students are not on fire because we, the educators, are not on fire. Many of us have become fire fighters, pouring water on the fire of our children’s hopes and dreams, rather being the fire lighter, and igniting them every day to go beyond their limited view. Be honest, which are you: fire fighter or fire lighter?”
— Calvin Mackie quoted in “Teacher Buried at 70, Died at 25!” in Education Matters

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Teaching to Change Lives Part 4

In my previous blog I mentioned the first “law” of teaching, to get to know students on a personal basis. The second law of teaching is to teach with passion. Teaching with passion means that when you share with students a particular subject, you share something that is real for you, as much as possible. Be open and admit it when you don’t like a subject but show your willingness to learn. Don’t fake it! Let me clarify a bit more. Maybe, you don’t really “love” the subject but when you present to your students, you present it with enthusiasm. Make it believable. Let them see how you are a learner too. Don’t say, “I am going to teach a subject, but I don’t really like it but I have to teach it.” Or, when you say, “reading is important and we should always be reading”, don’t just say it. Show it. Recently during our reading time with my 8th grade reluctant readers, I have begun to read as well. I have noticed a difference. They seemed to be quieter whereas before they had a hard time being quiet. I was trying to get them all quiet by “saying” things instead of showing them. Showing them tells them that I value it. It makes it believable. They don’t just hear that I love reading. They see it.

I often hear from students that their teachers are boring and in part they are right. Many of us don’t have the passion for the subjects we teach. Thus, when it is delivered it comes across to them as boring. If we want to impact our students we need to resuscitate our teaching and make it our passion. Embrace it. Make it personal. Make it real. Share it with passion! When you do this, they may see you as a bit “odd”. They don’t often see it!

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Teaching to Change Lives Part 3: Get To Know Your Students

There are certain “laws” that I think are indispensable to teach effectively and impact students’ lives. The first law is quite simple: get to know your students. Most of us teachers do fairly well in getting to know our students’ academic status but very few of us get know them as individuals. To impact students lives there needs to be conversations with students on a daily basis. My best conversations and even teaching moments have been when I am conversing with students one on one about their lives. For some teachers this is a forbidden area. They think that their professional line is crossed if they get to know their students. They want to make sure that students see them as teachers and not as friends. For me, it is not either/or but a both/and issue. We need to get to know our student yet always keep our roles as teachers. The purpose of getting to know my students is to learn how they think, what they do, what they like or don’t like, what kind of environment they have at home so that I can be more strategic in helping them be successful students. I often also do home visits. I want to know how my students live. It gives me a clear visual picture of how it affects their learning. For many teachers, home visits may not be an option. Depending on the students culture, one must determine if is something that can be done. As a Hispanic working with Hispanics I am able to do this quite easily. I’ve also been able to do this with Vietnamese students. I will discuss the topic of culture later, but for now suffice to say that home visits are important and will impact students lives. I have had parents thanfully tell me, “You are the first teacher who visits my home.” They feel so privileged to have a teacher in their home. If we want to change students’ lives we are going to have to get to know our students quite well. This may mean that we have to get out of our comfort zone. It may mean visiting their homes. It may mean going to their social functions even if they are not part of our own culture. Law 1: Get to know your students.

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Teaching to Change Lives Part 2

The last week of school I passed around a journal and asked my students to write their thoughts about their school year. The results, which I will post here makes me realize that they changed a lot. This is why I teach. I teach to change lives.

Quotes from Students About Our 2006-2007 Class
(with minimum editing)

• “I want to ask you guys a question, all you guys that are reading. Will we ever have a teacher like Mr. G? I have improved a lot…I’ve improved in my reading a lot.”

• “This whole year has changed me. I have improved more than ever.”

• “I have improved this year in math, reading, and habits.”

• “I have improved in getting organized in my reading log.”

• “ I have only improved with my reading and history”

• “I have learned a lot in this grade”

• “I had a lot of homework but its worth it. I have improved in my reading a lot thanks to Mr. G. Last year I had about 5.0 points and now I have more than 70.0 points. I am more confident in saying things. What I am really trying to say is thanks Mr. G and my class. Thank you all for giving me the best year of all.”

• “This year I had the most excitement I had ever had in all my School years. If it wasn’t for Mr. G I would never had any experience of being Student Body President….He also introduced me to new books such as Maximum Ride and Lord of the Rings. I really appreciate it Mr. G.”

• “Mr. G you are the best teacher I have ever had. You have taught me a lot…I wish when I go to 6th grade you would be my teacher.”

• “This year has been the year that I don’t want it to end.”

• “At the beginning of the school I didn’t read nothing. But I am stupid, now I changed. I changed when I came to 5th grade.”

• “Over they year I had improved a lot more than last year (in…..class).”

• “At the beginning of the year I didn’t accomplished that much. Then when they year passed I improved….I improved more this year than last year.”

• “In the beginning of the year I was scared. I didn’t understand anything that Mr. G said but after months passed by I could understand more than the first day’s of they year. And I could read books in English because I know more words than when I began to read books of 2nd grade. But now I could read 4th grade.”

• “I am very happy that I did more better and had more A.R. points than last year thanks to Mr. G for pushing me and pushing me.”

• “I hate that I could only spend one year with you.”

• “I learned a lot from you. You helped me a lot. Now I am going to really, really try my best.”

• “Thank you very much for pushing me.”

• “______and I liked the novels we read in the class.”

• “I hope all my teachers will be like you next year. I really hope you can stay here next year at S Elementary School.”

• “Mr. G, this year has been great! I learned so much and I improved a lot, but I could have never done it without your help. I will miss you so much!”

• “I read the card you wrote me about the leadership. I have read and thought about it. I think I am a bad leader but I will change. I am a strong boy. I will stand for what I believe and stick with it. I will be a good leader. I will never follow anyone ever!!”

• “Mr. G I know that I have done lots of mistakes this year. And I will change. On my honor.”

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Teaching to Change Lives – Part 1

Think back your schooling years? Who are the teachers that you remember? When I think back, I remember Mr. Dow, who prayed before we played soccer. I remember Mrs. Williams kindness and patience. I remember Mr. Alvarado’s smile everyday and reading the newspapers business section. I remember Mr. Roper a kind, Christian man who often did charity work outside of school. Ask me what I learned as far as the curriculum is concerned and I probably can’t mention much. But why do I remember them? They changed my life. Their teaching changed my life in some way or other.
I believe that teaching is about changing lives. Of course, I care about Standards and Academics. But my teaching should be such that after the school year is over students’ lives are changed. How so? Their viewpoint about education, about learning, about teachers, about success and about life changes.
This past year there was a phenomenon that happened in my class. The last day of school almost all of my students, with the exception of of few tough ones, cried. A few weeks before the school year was over WE were all dreading the end. Why? Many said it was because this was their best year. Many said it was a fun year. Many said they had learned a lot. All of them said they would miss our class. In later blogs I will post some of what they wrote to me. My only explanation for this phenomenon is that their life was changed. A sister of one of my students text messaged me the night her brother was watching the class movie I made. She said that he was not the same. I had changed his life. He was crying. Wow! It was very moving to hear this from a boy who the previous year had been in trouble almost everyday and had to stay after school. A boy who hardly read the previous year but read a lot in my class. A boy who became a leader in the class. A boy whose perspective about education changed. He has promised me he will do his best next year. His life was changed. This is why I teach. How does teaching change lives? Stay tuned. I have some ideas. This is only Part 1.
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